"He looked at her as a man looks at a faded flower he
has gathered, with difficulty recognizing in it the beauty for which he picked”
– Tolstoy (Anna Karenina)
"And you're sorry that the ephemeral beauty has faded
so rapidly, so irretrievably, that it flashed so deceptively and pointlessly
before your eyes” – Dostoyevsky
"I'd rather be thought of as smart, capable, strong,
and compassionate than beautiful. Those things all persist long after beauty
fades." – Cassandra Duffy
“Beauty is the first present nature gives to women and the
first it takes away.” – George Brossin
My daughters, beautiful and strong and intelligent…
I have always stressed your intellectual development and
placed emphasis on critical thinking, ethics, and dedication to self- and family
advancement and self-discipline. While
physical beauty is ephemeral or temporary, the qualities that you will, or
have, developed within yourself will be the pillars of the life you live, the
contributions you make to society, and the example you set for your
children. The goal for families like our
own, those that have emerged out of the lower economic working class, should be
to advance our position and the position of our children while strengthening
the economic, moral, political, intellectual and social structure of our local
communities (which if undertaken by enough small unit families within enough
communities can bring positive national reform). As women, you are the leaders of society,
culture, and family…while you are also the force behind building and strengthening
the pillars of future generations. This
responsibility is not an easy task, especially in a society of consumerism that
is morally degenerated by the mass produced images of sexism, the exploitation
of physical sexuality, and false images of how a so-called real woman is
depicted (usually half naked, or in a sexually degrading position, or stereotyped
as over-hysterical). In a population of
working class masses divided by race, ethnicity, religion and economics….the
controllers of capital have found one further element to divide working class
populations in order to prevent them from collective advancement and positive reform,
and this is the splintering (and eventual break down) of the family unit by
pitting man against woman and father against mother. These destroyers of culture are slick in
their mass production of promoting loose morality, “free love” and violent
pornography, and the infamous individual dramas that are so heavily glamorized in
the flood of media entertainment (which is often subconsciously and consciously
mimicked by youth and uneducated adults alike).
The boundaries of these inorganic norms and values become more damaging
and destructive to family units, communities and nation with each decade. Yet, we can’t honestly blame the complete
degeneration of a society of these owners of mass capital (who poison the minds
of Americans through mass production) without first taking responsibility of
our own intellectual and educational conditions and developmental voids which
have left ourselves and our children vulnerable to such heavily repeated and
glamorized images of desensitized degradation.
You, the women, are the solution. Physical beauty is temporary and fades with
age. Therefore it is vital for you, as a
leader and example to society, to build your confidence, self-worth, mental
stamina and moral discipline to be as strong and powerful as can be possibly
attained. Never stop evolving mentally
or intellectually. There is nothing more
pathetic, and damaging to society, than a woman who has been forced to rely solely
on physical beauty (and sex appeal), who is left empty, insecure, uneducated
and lost after that exterior beauty and sex appeal has faded away.
The falsehood of fast fame based on physical beauty:
Take a look at the amount of your peers that are pursuing
modeling, dancing or singing paths with irrational expectations of possible
fast fame and fortune with nothing substantial to fall back on. Pursuits in useless, short-lived areas such
as these are a fool’s path that, in the vast majority of cases, results to exploitation
or lost time (and money). It is much
wiser to build your intellect, devise your long term plan, and develop
self-worth and further confidence that will outlast physical beauty. Of course, there will always be that half-wit
liberal voice in the wind crying “Let them shoot for their dreams!” or “You
never know until you try!” Is it even possible
to explain to a sleeping dreamer the harsh realities and challenges of the real
world ahead? Modeling is based on
consumerism, as singing and dancing is.
These fields are usually only accessible at the lowest levels aimed at
exploitive consumerism based on sex appeal or individual exploitation. Do you know how much pay that a half-dressed
woman who shakes her ass and chest in a music video gets paid? What is worse is that our ignorant American youth
who pursue to be exploited by modeling and the various entertainment fields
have no understanding of the actual economic structure of these fields, nor do
they understand the demographics of ownership.
There are so many con-artists with ulterior motives in these so-called
entertainment fields, each licking their lips for the lost lower economic girl
with no educational development. So-called
professional photographers will eventual work to persuade you into skimpy
swimwear and soon after out of your clothing with promises of modeling fame and
fortune; while the unaffiliated lower parasites of music and acting industry,
who lie about their connections, promise the world while trying to rub up against
and seduce women. Intelligent and
confident women do not get bamboozled in this manner. It is better for your future and the future
of your children to build yourself mentally, morally, and economically in order
to stand on your own and not be vulnerable to such exploitation and empty
promises of fool’s gold. Young women
with well-developed mental stamina and strong confidence are usually immune to the
false lures of this crooked path. Sadly,
it is usually the young women who are led into adulthood without positive mentorship
that have been left uneducated, emotionally undisciplined and intellectually
deficient, and thrown into the adult world while unaware, in symbolic Little
Red Riding Hood fashion, of the social ills and traps waiting. What is worse is when a vicious cycle
develops. One of the most despicable and
lowest trends of our current society can be seen with these mentally diseased
mothers painting heavy make-up on the faces of young girls (as young as 2) and
dressing them in modeling outfits while prancing them across a beauty contest
stage. These poor girls first lesson in
life focuses on the importance of a deteriorating physical shell, and many of
them will be doomed to emotional insecurity.
My daughters, the futures are yours and the decisions of the future are
yours.
The male suitors:
Sometimes I wonder just how much women truly understand the
heart, minds and souls of men and, in return, how much men understand women. I assume the answer falls with the mind and
intellectual understanding of the beholder.
I, as a father and a man, feel that I understand women to some extent. I have studied women since I was born. I studied my mother for many years and came
to understand a particular form of strength within women that does not exist in
men, especially when it comes to their children. I have studied, and gave thanks, for the
strength, discipline and wisdom of your mother.
In my early youth and early adulthood, I chased the pretty girls with their
physical beauty and hollow minds, as I also had no substantial thought process
or education in my head. Without
intellectual development and understanding of society or history, I myself did
not understand what the most prominent and most vital qualities of a woman
were. This pre-self-education epoch in
my youth provides much mental thought today in my older years as I can now see
my errors in those physical beauties I pursued in romance. The largest error was that these pursuits were
solely based on physical beauty and temporary romance and were not designed for
longevity, mutual interests and goals, or mental stimulation. How many young couples have made a life-long
commitment and brought children into the world based on temporary physical attraction
or illusionary romance, with no other structural bonds between them, which have
resulted in divorce and the disbursement and separation of the children (which
hinders development and advancement)?
My beautiful daughters, the male suitors will be coming to
court you with sweet words and flowers.
I have no doubts. The moral of
the story above (about your father) is to be wary of a handsome face and a
dashing smile with only foolishness, immaturity, ignorance and emptiness behind
it. Without inner substance, there is
nothing but plastic. Without a passion
for future development or the desire to better themself, there is only plastic. A Ken doll is unable to properly raise
children, nor can it reform a future society, nor can it provide and protect
for you or your family. Without mental
and intellectual substance, the Ken doll can only look handsome. One thing I have never been able to figure
out is why women allow the condition of men to remain so base and so
uncivilized in nature. Perhaps it is
because many women have lost the identity of who they really; mothers of
civilization and leaders of society. In
our current culture, it is the male that pursues the female most of the
time. One element of social reform would
be for women not to settle for barbaric, immature, foolish, ignorant or selfish
suitors. By rejecting these weak
character traits in suitors, men would eventually reform themselves to achieve
levels expected from the leaders of our society, the women that they seek to
win the hearts of.
This brings up the wolf.
Men have been, and always will be, physically attracted to your beauty
and your body, and many men, especially in this degenerated society, will say
all the nice and romantic words that can they conjure upon their lips to have
you. I hope by the time you analyze this
letter that you understand this game, can identify the wolves from the good
men, and have come through your youth with a better understanding of such
ridiculous social norms and values (of dating).
Once again, develop your mind and make men respect you for more than
your physical body and your physical beauty.
If only you could hear the way a good majority of men speak of women in
a room of only men listeners.
Disrespectful could not define it.
Perhaps this is men’s way of showing off and proving themselves to other
men, but it is uncivilized at best. Keep
in mind that there are multiple levels to the wolf. I strongly advise you to research sexual
assault and rape statistics, news reports and crime trends. Always protect yourself. While the stranger who grabs the young women
from the bus stop is real, the wolves you know and work alongside of, with
sweet words and intoxicating liquors, are more numerous in number. I pray God gives you wisdom and protects you
as a woman in this Sodom and Gomorrah culture.
It can look so innocent.
A man desires a woman in two ways: 1) physical attraction
and 2) her characteristics, attributes, and qualities. As we have noted, physical beauty fades with
age just as physical attraction loses magnetism. It doesn’t mean that physical attraction
evaporates altogether, only that it diminishes over time. It is animalistic in nature. The attraction to inner-characteristics
doesn’t diminish, and the characteristics that a man is attracted to can
clearly illustrate the characteristics of that man. For example: there is an old humorous saying
about “liking bad girls”. What does this
tell you about a man’s mind state? What
does it tell you about the characteristics he desires? What does it tell you about the
characteristics he is made of? A man who
like “submissive” girls? Many men have
control issues. Do not tolerate anything
less than equality in a relationship. From
the other side of the perspective, there are many men in this world, hopefully
a growing number, that value intelligence, morality, humility, honesty and
other positive life-long qualities. Read
the characteristics of men closely, my daughters, because suitors will mask
their true characters during the early phases of courting or
relationships. You, as a woman and
future mother, should want your self-worth, intelligence and character to be
what attracts, and demands respect, from a suitor….instead of simple outer
beauty and sexuality. Why be one-dimensional? Enjoy the youth and the beauty you have, but
build your inner-character and mental strength for your entire life. Mere beauty does not demand respect.
A mentally and intellectually developed, emotionally
disciplined, and confident woman, one that does not concern themselves with the
petty judgments of others, is not denied respect in society. She is impossible to deny respect! Do not tolerate foolishness from men, nor
pettiness from anyone. Do not waste time
with a dead beat man without a solid work ethic, without morals, without well
thought out rational plans, without desires to better himself, and without a
livelihood. To do such is the same as
self-destruction. Build yourself and set
personal development goals to the highest levels and work hard within society
to a position where you will never be forced to solely rely for your
subsistence on a man (economically, domestically, emotionally, or elsewise). Too many “empty” women find themselves
emotional slaves to a man. He becomes
all they have, because they have nothing in themselves. When a man breaks off relationship or betrays
the relationship…the woman is often left in social or economic disarray,
sadness, and depression (sometimes with children to take care of). It is also this emotional bondage that keeps
women in abusive relationships where she is disrespected, beaten and
demoralized. Look at the reports of
domestic violence in today’s society.
Look at all the news reports of husbands murdering wives, wives
murdering husbands, Husbands or wives murdering children (to get revenge as a
jilted lover). This trend is a sign of
weak character and weak emotional discipline, not to mention serious moral
disease). It is a sickness. I pray neither of you ever place yourself
anywhere near a position of such uncivilized depravity and mental captivity.
You, the woman, should be respected, protected and honored
above all else in society. You are the
temple that creates life. Yet, the owners
of capital and their mass produced inorganic popular culture (through
television, music, radio and internet) has fooled our previous, and the
current, generations to view women as mere meat, property, sexual objects and a
weaker gender when you, the women of our nation, are the concrete pillars of
society, the Queens of this planet, and the mothers of human civilization. Look around you and see how our future
mothers are willingly defiling and disrespecting their physical bodies, the
temple through which life is created, with piercings, ink and depravity. How did an entire society come to this low
point? It is upon you and your peers to
break this vicious cycle of uncivilized tricknology, and teach the daughters of
tomorrow through your actions in this generation. Every man and woman should protect the
righteous and learned woman; woe to the uncivilized devil that strikes one of
our mothers of civilization and shameful disgrace should rain down on the man
who allows this crime to occur within his awareness.
Selective Breeding:
I’m sure this is an awkward sub-title concerning the main
topic of this letter, but it is an area I thought worthy of consideration. A week ago EJ and I were working some home educational
assignments on science and covered the concept of selective breeding. Some of the examples we discussed were the
Kentucky Derby and pedigree dog shows (both events worthless to society). I explained to her the process of selective
breeding by explaining that the most successful horse breeders only breed
horses with the best qualities they are looking for: examples could be long legs,
strong skeletal structure, or long necks.
Whatever the combination of physical traits is that make the fastest and
most physically strong thoroughbreds, these breeders ensure that both male and
female being bred possess those strongest qualities. Anyone who has studied 6th grade
science should understand how dominant and recessive genes work in
reproduction.
Understanding what we know about DNA, recessive and dominant
genes, and human reproduction, I began to contemplate human reproduction. When you reach the point of considering a
family, hopefully long after you have developed yourself into a well-rounded
intellectual with solid morals and a contributing, self-sustaining position in
society, I would have to recommend to you that you consider this scientific
method. When that period in your life
arrives and you consider a relationship perspective to create a family around and
birth children to, you should consider the following: 1) Hereditary diseases. If a perspective mate comes from a family
with a history of heart disease, lung disease, kidney failure, or any other
health defect or life shortening disease, why would you birth children with him
and risk those diseases being passed to your children? 2)
Weak DNA. You should observe weak
bone and muscle structuring (injuries), poor hearing or vision, trouble with
breathing, weak immunization systems (meaning always catching colds),
allergies, and any other notable weaknesses in the physical longevity or the
ability to work and contribute to society and provide for family. Why wouldn’t you consider hereditary health
defects? You must ask yourself how smart
it is to create children with someone whose parents and their parents before
them have developed problems with their ankles by their late 30s, or who are
constantly sick, or whose hearing and vision had deteriorated early in life. These are weak strains in DNA and are
defects. I am not telling you to base your
choice solely on these considerations, but you should at minimum consider it to
some extent. 3) DNA/Mental capabilities. I would say you SHOULD base this
consideration on your decision in this field.
Not including the ignorant and the uneducated, there are book smart
people and there are people that are naturally imbued with intelligence (common
sense, IQ, the ability for mental reflection, understanding and critical
thought) that is carried in the genes.
While conversing with your potential perspective, try to gauge his
natural intelligence level. Oh, what a
fun and innocent second or third date it would be to conduct separate IQ tests
together (just for fun, of course). Why
would you want to create children with a man whose hereditary intellectual
genes are deficient or below average? Do
you want your children to stare into space with a blank look on their face as
drool drips from their bottom lip? Like
I said, you are the queens of humanity and civilization. It is you, the mothers of the Earth, who
create life and you DO have a choice on how the DNA of that life is
constructed. I do not think many men or
women consider this, probably because they are so caught up in the mass
produced bullshit pumping over the movie and television screens promoting silly
temporary romances based on temporary physical beauty that will one day fade
away…..instead of self-building, family building, community building,
nation-building, and humanity-building.
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